Aina 10 za wanaume ambao huwafai kiwa nao katika mapenzi.

1. Mwanaume Kicheche:

Hakuna mwanamke anayependa kuchezewa na wanaume, labda tu kama anafanya hivyo katika juhudi zake za kujikwamua kiuchumi, lakini pale mwanamke anapokuwa katika harakati za kutafuta mwanaume ambaye kama mambo yakiwa mazuri wafunge ndoa, ni vyema akajie

pusha na wanaume vicheche wanaotongoza wanawake kwa lengo la kustarehe na kumaliza matamanio yao ya ngono. wakati mwingine mwanaume mwenye tabia ya kuchezea wanawake anaweza kumfuata mwanamke ambaye ametamani mwili wake na kujifanya eti amebadilika na kuwa mtakatifu. Anaweza kujiweka katika mazingira yanayoonyesha kwamba amebadilika ili kumvuta mwanamke. Shituka mwanamke, jasiri haachi asili atakutumia kama condom na kisha kukutupilia mbali. Wanaume wenye tabia hizo ni vigumu kubadilika. Inahitaji subira ya hali ya juu kujiridhisha kama kweli amebadilika au anazuga ili apate anachokitaka.

2. Mwanaume asiye na kazi na asiyejishughulisha:

Mwaume asiye na kazi na asiyejishughulisha ni mzigo usio na mwenyewe. Mwanaume asiyejishughulisha eti kwa sababu hajapata kazi huyo hana malengo. Kukubali kuwa na uhusiano na mwnaaume wa aina hiyo ni sawa na kuishi na mtu mfu anayetembea (dead alive), labda tu kama atakupa sababu inayoingia akilini kuhusu kutokuwa kwake na kazi na kutojishughulisha kwake. Kama atakuwa ni mtu wa kulalamika tu kwamba hakuna ajira na haonyeshi dalili zozote za kuhangaika kutafuta hata vibarua ili kujikimu eti kwa sababu ni msomi na badala yake anageuka kuwa ombaomba kwa ndugu zake na marafiki zake Nawashauri wanawake muwaepuke wanaume wa aina hii kwani hawafai wanataka kulelewa. Kama amekuona unafanya kazi au una vibishara vyako vinavyokuingizia shilingi mbili tatu zinazokufanya uishi vizuri hapa mjini jua kwamba hicho ndicho kilichomvuta kwako, ukikubali umekwisha maana atakukamua hadi tone la mwisho kisha ahamie kwa mwingine, si kilichomleta kwako hakipo, sasa awe na wewe kwa lipi....

3. Mwanaume asiyejiamini:

Kukubali kuwa na mahusiano na mwanaume asiyejiamini ni sawa na kuishi na bomu ndani ya nyumba. Mwanaume asiyejihisi kuwa yuko salama na mwenye mashaka muda mwingi kuhusu uhusiano wenu, hutawaliwa na wivu wa ajabu ambao licha ya kukuletea fedheha kwa ndugu, jamaa na marafiki zako, lakini pia anaweza kukudhuru au hata kukutoa roho siku moja. Wanaume wasiojiamini mara nyingi ni watu wa kujitilia mashaka kuhusu hali zao za kipato na uwezo wao katika tendo. Kuwa na mahusiano na mwanaume asiejiamini inabidi uishi kwa akili na uchague maneno ya kuzungumza kila uwapo naye, kwani kila neno utakalotamka litatafutiwa tafsiri na kitakachofuata ni tafrani, sasa tabu yote ya nini..... Tupa kule hafai kwa mchuzi wala kwa kulumangia...

4.Mtoto wa mama:

Inawezekana mwanaume akalazimika kuishi nyumbani kwao kwa muda baada ya kumaliza masomo au amepoteza ajira na akawa bado hajapata ajira au hajapata shughuli ya maana itakayomwezesha kujitegemea, hii inakubalika. Hata hivyo kama mwanamke anakutana na mwanaume ambaye anaishi na wazazi wake na haonyeshi dalili za kutafuta kazi au shughuli yenye kipato itakayomwezesha kuondoka hapo kwao na kujitegemea, usije ukajiingiza katika uhusiano na mwanaume wa aina hiyo, itakula kwako, huyo ashakuwa kupe na tegemezi, utakuwa ni mzigo wako na atakuganda kama luba na kupoteza bahati ya kukutana na wanaume wenye mwelekeo wa maisha.

5. Mwanaume anayependa kutukuzwa kama mfalme:

Unaweza kukutana na mwanaume aliyejipachika kibandiko ufalme ambaye anapenda sana kuhudumiwa kama mfalme. Yaani anataka afanyiwe kila kitu, na hajishughulishi kukusaidia kazi hata zile zinazotakiwa zifanywe na mwanaume, yeye kazi yake ni kukaa sebuleni na kuangalia TV au kusoma vitabu au magazeti huku akiagiza kila kitu asogezewe miguuni. Hawezi hata kunyanyuka kufuata kitu anachotaka na badala yake ni kuamrisha aletewe. Mwanaume wa aina hii ni wa kuepukwa kwani mwanamke kukubali kuwa na uhusiano na mwanaume mwenye tabia za kupenda kutukuzwa kama mfalme ni kutaka kuishi kwa msongo wa mawazo na jakamoyo na hivyo kufupisha umri wako wa kuishi hapa duniani. Kinga ni bora kuliko tiba, ukikutana na mwanaume wa aina hii chapa lapa hakufai..

6. Mwanaume mwenye utititri wa watoto kila kona:

Mwanaume kuwa na watoto nje ya ndoa si jambo la kushangaza siku hizi, lakini pale unapokutana na mvulana mwenye umri wa miaka 25 lakini ana watoto watatu kwa mama tofauti, mh! hapo sikushauri ujiingize kwenye uhusiano na mwanaume huyo. Hata hivyo si lazima awe na miaka 25 tu hata mwanaume mwenye umri mkubwa zaidi ya huo halafu ana watoto watatu au hata wanne au zaidi kutoka kwa mama tofauti ni wa kuepuka. Hivi atakupa sababu gani zilizomfanya akawa na watoto kwa mama tofauti kila kona ya mtaa mpaka umuelewe! Kuwa na mahusiano na mwanaume aina hiyo ni kukaribisha shari nyumbani kwako maana kila siku utapata wageni wanaokuja kudai hela za matumizi kutoka kwa mumeo tena wengine watakuja kishari hasa na kukuharibia siku. Mh mh! sikushauri mwanamke, sepa zako, bado nafasi unayo ya kumpata mwanaume mwingine mwadilifu.

7. Mwanaume anayejipenda mwenyewe:

Mwanaume anayejipenda mwenyewe ni kizungumkuti kingine ambacho wanawake wanapaswa kujiepusha nacho. Utakuta mwanaume anajipenda mwenyewe hakuna anachojali kuhusu mwenzi wake zaidi ya kujijali yeye mwenyewe. Wanaume wenye tabia hii ya kujipenda wenyewe, huwa wana kawaida ya kujijali wao wenyewe. Wanataka wavae nguo nzuri za thamani ili wao wapendeze na si wenzi wao. Swala la kumjali mwenzi wake halipo katika vichwa vya wanaume wa aina hii kabisa. Mwanamke sikushauri uingie katika moto huu.

8.Mwanaume bahili:

Unakutana na mwanaume mtoko wa kwanza tu anakuchagulia aina ya chakula au kinywaji kwa kuangalia bei rahisi na wakati wa kulipa anahesabia hela yake mfukoni, huyo ni janga. Utakapoingia katika uhusiano na mwanaume wa aina hii atakusumbua sana na pia katika kupanga bajeti nyumbani usishangae akihesabu finyango za nyama au vipande vya samaki jikoni. Sikushauri mwanamke, we ingia mitini hakufai huyo........

9.Mwanaume chapombe mlevi kupindukia:

Hakuna ubaya mtu kunywa pombe, hasa kama unajua kiwango chako cha unywaji, lakini kuwa na uhusiano na mwanaume mlevi anayekunywa pombe kupindukia kila siku non stop 24/7 huyo hafai. Mwanaume wa aina hii ndio wale wanaosema kunywa pombe watoto wakitembea uchi atajua mama yao. Hata siku moja hawezi kuzungumzia maendeleo kwa ustawi wa familia, kwake utakuwa ni msamiati mgumu.

10. Mwanaume mwenye kisirani na asiyeweza kumuuwa nyoka akafa :

Mwanaume mwenye kisirani ni ngumu sana kuishi naye. Mwanaume mwenye kisirani na anayependa kuweka vitu rohoni na asiyeweza kusamehe ni janga. kuishi na mwanaume wa aina hii ni sawa na kuishi na explosive material ambayo yakipata joto tu hulipuka. Mwanaume umetoka naye mtoko wa kwanza na kwa bahati mbaya mhudumu wa mghahawa akasau kitu katika vitu mlivyoagiza akagomba kupita kiasi na kuwakusanya mameneja wote wa mghahawa akiwemo mpishi mkuu akilalamika.

Na kama hiyo haitoshi mtaondoka hapo mghahawani njia nzima kambeba kichwani mhudumu yule masikini aliyeghafilika mpaka mwisho wa safari yenu na huenda akalala naye kichwani. Mwanaume huyo hafai kama gome la mgomba lisilofaa kwa dawa ya miti shamba wala kuni, labda kwa kufungia ugoro. Huyo mpishe ajiendee zake hakufai.

NB:

Kila binadamu anakasoro zake na tabia ambazo zinawakera wengine kuna ambazo zinabadilika kulingana na mazingira na umri lakini kuna zingine hazibadiliki,Ni jukumu la mwanamke kuchagua ambaye unahisi tabia yake unaweza kuibadilisha kwa namna moja au nyingine au utaweza kuivumilia kwakuwa umempenda maana hakuna mkamilifu kwani wote tumeumbwa na mmoja ambaye ni Mungu au ukae single bila kuwa na mtu kama hauhitaji usumbufu wa hapa na pale.

Karibuni kwa michango zaidi

Nimegundua Mpenzi alizaa kabla, sina amani Ushauri

 Mimi ni msichana mwenye umri wa miaka 21 sijaolewa ila nina mchumba ambae ana malengo mazuri na mimi lakini dada nina tatizo moja.

Mchumba wangu huyu tangu niwe na uhusiano nae ni mwaka umepita sasa, kwa kweli ananipenda na mimi nampenda tena sana tu na ananihudumia kwa kila nitakacho yani kama mke wake. Huwa hanifichi kitu! lakini nimekuja kugudua kuwa yeye ana mtoto mmoja wa kike na ni mkubwa, kwanza alikataa kuniambia kwa kudai ni mapema mno baada ya kumbana akaniambia kweli kuwa anamtoto ambaye alizaa na mwanamke mmoja kabla ya kuwa na uhusiano na mimi.

Alidai kuwa anamuhudumia yule mwanamke sababu wazazi wa yule binti wamembana ahudumie, pia amesema yeye anampenda mtoto tu na sio mama yake kwani hakutaka kuzaa nae ila ilikuwa bahati mbaya!

Sasa dada mimi Moyo wangu umeingia chuki sana baada ya kusikia hivyo lakini mwenyewe anadai anampenda sana mtoto wake kuliko kitu kingine, mimi hapo ndio sielewi je anampenda kuliko mimi?

Dada naomba ushauri, huyu mwanaume nampenda na ndiye anayenisomesha Chuo mpaka sasa na huduma zote ananipa ila tatizo ni chuki iliyoniingia ghafla nashindwa kuelewa ni kwa nini naomba msaada wako! kwani nataka nafsi iwe na amani."

Story ya Mapenzi ya John na Msichana Aliyempanda siku Nyingi Bila ya kumwambia.

John alikuwa na hisia za mapenzi kwa binti mmoja siku nyingi sana. Lakini hakuweza kujieleza. Siku moja akajikakamua kumuandikia binti message "I love U so much!, Tafadhali nijibu hisia zako". Baada ya muda mchache simu yake iliingia msg nguvu zilimuisha kwa kutaka kujua binti kajibu nini... akaamua kulala asome msg siku inayofatia labda angepata ujasiri wa kuifungua msg. Siku iliyofuata jamaa akaamka mapema akafagia uwanja, akafanya usafi nyumba nzima na kazi zote mpaka watu wakamshangaa, mwishowe akaoga na kupata muda wa kupumzika na kujitupa kitandani kwa shauku ili aisome msg aliyojibiwa, kufungua msg akakuta................................ "Hauna salio la kutosha kutumia huduma hii, bonyeza *149*22# kupata Tigo niwezeshe. TIGO EXPRESS YOURSELF".

Msichana Usiwe Mjinga Fanya haya kuteka Akili za Mwanaume yeyote Duniani.

Hapa ni mambo 10 muhimu, ambayo mwanaume ukiyafanya kwa mwanamke wako, hakika utakuwa umejijengea ulinzi wa yeye mwenyewe kujilinda dhidi ya mwizi au dokozi yeyote huko nje.

#1 – Mfanye akojoe kabla hujaanza kumuingilia (kungonoka)

Inawezekana likaonekana jambo geni na la kushangaza kidogo, lakini ukweli ndio uko hivyo. 

Hili ni jambo ambalo wanawake wengi wangelipenda kufanyiwa na wapenzi wao lakini ambalo wanaume huwa hawalifanyi. 

Wengi huwaandaa wanawake kwa lengo la kuhakikisha kuwa wametepeta kwenye uke, kwa maana ya kuwa wamelainika ili kuwezesha wao kupenya kwa urahisi, lakini wanawake wengi wangependa zaidi ya hapo. 

Ikiwa mwanaume utaweza kumfanya mwanamke akojoe kabla ya kumuingilia, unajiongezea nafasi ya kumfanya afurahie lile tendo la kutiana zaidi na kukuweka miongoni mwa wanaume walio bora kabisa wa maisha yake. 

Hii humfanya awe tayari yuko kwenye hali ya kuhitaji tu kuingia kwa uume wako aweze kupiga bao la pili, na hii inamaanisha kuwa inaweza kuwasaidia sana wale ambao huwa wanakabiliwa na tatizo la kukojoa haraka sana. 

Hata ukipigwa bao la usoni sawa tu...Mruhusu!!! 

#2 – Vumbua maeneo mengine yenye kumsisimua

Ndio, sote tunajua kuhusu matiti, ki**mi, kiharage, kunyonya ulimi na mengine, lakini hadithi haitakiwi kuishia hapo tu.

Kama ambavyo wanaume wamezoea baadhi ya maeneo yenye kuelezwa kuwa yanamsisimua sana mwanamke, ndivyo ambavyo nao huzoea sana kusisimuliwa kupitia maeneo hayo.

Hii maana yake ni kuwa, unaweza kujikuta unazama kwenye ile hali ya kuzoeleka sana, ambapo akikuona tu, anakuwa tayari anajua huyu ataanza hapa, ataishia pale na atakojoa namna hii. Hili haliwezi kumsisimua mwanamke.

Mwili wa mwanamke, una maeneo zaidi ya 16, ambayo yakichezewa au kuguswa kiufundi wa kimahaba, huweza hata kumfanya mwanamke huyo kukojoa kabla ya kuingiliwa.

Tumezoea G-Sport kwa mfano, lakini ni wangapi tunajua kuhusu U-Spot katika uchi wa mwanamke? 

Wangapi tunajua kuhusu A-Spot? ..... ufahamu vizuri mwili wa mpenzi wako, na uuzingatie wote kwa ujumla wakati wa kufanya mapenzi naye, na hakika utakuwa shujaa wake.

Matiti yakisisimuliwa vizuri ni kiungo cha ajabu kwa mwanamke!

#3 – Usiwe kama kuku

Ndio, licha ya kuwa hapo awali tunaambiwa kuwa ikiwa utaweza kumfanya mwanamke afike kileleni kabla ya kumuingilia, unamjengea mazingira ya kufika kileleni haraka pindi unapomuingilia, lakini haimaanishi basi uwe kama kuku au risasi, kwamba ikishachochewa tu basi inachomoka kwa spidi isiyomithilika.

Mwanaume kudumu kwenye tendo kwa muda wa kutosha, ni moja ya mambo yenye kumjengea heshima kwa mwanamke wake na kumuona kuwa yu shujaa. 

Sometimes, pumzi zako kitandani zinaweza pia kutafsiriwa kuwa ni pumzi za mtaani, na kama kitandani hauko nazo za kutosha, itakuwaje siku mmevamiwa mkiwa matembezini na watu unaotakiwa kupigana nao?

Tofauti kubwa sana baina ya wanaume na wanawake ni kuwa, wanaume wengi hujamiiana kwa minajili ya kufika kileleni, ilhali wanawake hujamiiana kwa minajili ya kustarehe. 

So, usiifanye starehe hiyo kuwa ya dakika moja...lakini pia usiiifanye kuwa ya kukarahisha, kama ambavyo wanaume wengi wanaamini kuwa kumsugua mwanamke uchi hadi akahitaji barafu la kujikanda ili ipoe, ni ushujaa.

Nusu saa hadi dakika 50 ni muda muafaka kabisa, na zaidi ya dakika 60, kwa wanawake wengi inaweza kuwaondolea sence ya starehe na wakajiona kama wanalipishwa walicholishwa.

#4 – Maandalizi ya kumpa mshawasha wa kuihitaji

Ndio, wapo wanaume wengi tu wanaoweza kujinadi kuwa wanajua kuwaandaa wanawake zao kwakuwa wanajua kuwanyonya vi**mi, kunyonya matiti nk, lakini ukweli ni kwamba wengi hatuko hivyo. 

Kama ambavyo nimetanabaisha hapo awali, asilimia kubwa ya wanaume huwachezea wanawake sio kwa lengo la kuamsha hisia zao kwa ajili ya kujamiiana, bali kwa minajili ya kuwafanya wapate ule ute ambao utawarahisishia wao kuingia. 

Kitu kikubwa wanachopendelea wanawake, ni aina ya mwanaume ambaye anaweza kumfanyia vimichezo vya kumtia hamu hadi ikiwezekana aanze kuulilia muhogo. 

Jidai kama unataka kumnyonya ki**mi, lakini usifanye hivyo, pumua usawa wa mdomo wa uke wake kiasi cha kumfanya ahisi pumzi yako, mlambe mapajani...sio lazima kila siku iwe kwenye tundu la uke.......

Haya ni baadhi ya yatayomfanya aanze kutamani kwani unakuwa tofauti tofauti, na ukiamsha hisia zake kwa namna ya kipekee. 

Na hili basi ndilo lenye kupelekea umuhimu wa jambo jingine lifuatalo ambalo wanawake hulihitaji....cheki namba 5 hapa chini

Tumichezo kama hutu twa Manaiki Sanga tunasaidia...

#5 – Kutiana kwa ulimi/mdomo

Inashangaza sana kwa kweli...wakati wanaume wengi wamekuwa wakijisifia sana kwa kuwafanyia maandalizi wenza wao, tafiti zinaonyesha kuwa, zaidi ya asilimia 70 yao wamekuwa wakieleza kuwa wanafanya hivyo kwa kutumia tu vidole vyao.

Sawa na ambavyo asilimia 70 ya wanawake walisema kuwa wanadhani kwa kutumia tu viganja vyao wanaweza kumfanya mwanaume akasimama vya kutosha kuwaingilia.

Ukweli ni kwamba, hii sio sahihi kabisa. 

Umepewa viungo zaidi kwa ajili ya kumfanya mwenzako aweze kufurahia tendo la ndoa, na ikiwa unaweza kuvitumia, kwanini unavibania bania?

Unaona kinyaa kwa mwenza wako au ni nini hasa? Tumia ulimi wako, mnyonye kila mahali ambako unadhani ulimi huo unaweza kufika na ukamfanya aseme "Oh...am going crazy"

#6 – Msisimue kwa kauli zako

Wanaume wengi sana huwa mabubu wawapo kitandani wakihofia kuwa wapenzi wao watawafikiria namna gani vipi wakisema sema wakati wanajamiiana nao...

lakini mbona wengine huwa wanaishia kupiga makelele wanapotaka kushusha mizigo yao?

Kama unaweza kushindwa kujibana kupiga kelele wakati wa kukojoa, kwanini basi ujizuie kumpa maneno matamu matamu wakati unaendelea kumstarehesha? 

Nong'ona kwenye sikio lake, mweleze kiasi gani ni mtamu....hata zile oooh....sss....mmmm zako, zifanye sikioni kwake.....

wanawake huwa hawajisikii raha sana wanapokuwa wanaguswa hata kwenye kitu gani wakati wa kujamiiana, ikiwa mwanaume yuko kimya tuuu, utadhani dumwana ambalo linashangaa kilichoko mbele yake. 

Anakuwa hajui kama unaenjoy anachokifanya kwako au laa. 

Ni sawa na wewe mwanaume, unajisikiaje pale unapokuwa umemgusa mwanamke mahali fulani penye mzizi wa utamu na akaanza kukwambia kwa ile sauti ya kipekee akisema "hapo hapo...hapo hapo jamani raaaha"....

Epuka tu sauti yako isiwe ambayo itamfanya anywee kama alomwagiwa maji ya baridi ilhali alikuwa anakaribia kuanza kuelea angani. 

Unaweza kumsifia hata kabla gemu halijaanza....

#7 – Jenga mahusiano ya macho yenu

Hivi, ishakutokea ukakojoa ukiwa unamtizama mpenzi wako machoni kwa muda wote wa tukio hilo tu la kukojoa?

Au kumtizama machoni moja kwa moja yeye akiwa anakojoa? 

Kwa taarifa yako, hili ni moja kati ya mambo yaliyo na raha ya kipekee ambayo huwezi kuelezea kwa maneno. 

Mawasiliano ya macho wakati wa kujamiiana, huimarisha sana ile hali ya msisimko baina yenu na ikiwa inatokea mwanamke uliye naye alishawahi kutokewa na mwanaume ambaye wakati wanajamiiana alikuwa akimtizama usoni moja kwa moja, basi si ajabu mtapomaliza akajitoa kimaso maso na kukuuliza "mbona ulifumba macho wakati unakojoa", na hapa atakuwa akimaanisha kuwa kuna ulichomnyima.

Mwanaume, jitahidi kubadili utaratibu wa kila siku kuzima taa wakati mnajamiiana, acha taa ziwake wakati mwingine, na zipo taa ambazo zenyewe tu kwa uwezo wa rangi zake, huwafanya mjihisi mko dunia nyingine kabisa, kumbe ni kwenye kitanda chenu kile kile ambacho kila siku mnakitumia. 

Mazoea ni mabaya, lakini haimaanishi kuwa hamuwezi kubadilika, na ikiwa unaweza kuongoza jahazi la mabadiliko haya, akizoea hakika atakuwa akikufurahia zaidi.

#8 – Mzingatie baada ya kumaliza kujamiiana

Jambo moja ambalo wanaume wanafanya makosa, ni kumu-ignore mwanamke punde wanapokuwa wamemaliza kujamiiana. 

Hawajui kuwa, huu ni muda ambao mwanamke anakuwa yuko wazi mno kwao, muda ambao unaweza kumueleza lolote na akakuelewa zaidi ya ambavyo angekuelewa wakati mwingine wowote ule. 

Kimaumbile, wanawake hawakuumbwa kupoa haraka pindi wanapokuwa wamemaliza lile tendo la kuingiliwa. 

So, unaweza kuwa umemkojolesha na kumgusa kila angle ambayo unaijua, lakini kitendo cha kumkumbatia, ukampiga busu na kumwambia "asante", huku ukimruhusu alaze kichwa chake tu kifuani mwako kwa kupumzika, kina maana kubwa sana, iliyo sawa au hata zaidi ya kitendo mnachokuwa mmetoka kukifanya.

Huu ni wakati wa kummwagia kila aina ya sifa ambayo anaistahili, na ndio muda muafaka wa kumuandaa kuwa na hamu ya wewe safari nyingine utapomhitaji.

#9 – Mpe fursa ya kuliongoza jahazi kwa niaba yako

Wanaume wengi sana wameumbwa kutaka kuwa vinara kwa kila kitu, hata wanapokuwa kwenye kujamiiana, hupenda wao ndio waongoze kila move. 

Sio mbaya kwasababu wanawake nao wameumbwa kuwaongoza wanawake na hilo linaeleweka. 

Ni kweli kuwa una wajibu wa kuhakikisha unamgusa kila anapotaka, umfikishe kileleni anapopaota, lakini kwa upande wa pili, kuna asilimia kubwa tu ya wanawake ambao wangependa sana kupewa fursa ya wao kutawala dimba wakati wa mchezo.

Sio suala la kumwambia, leo mie nitalala tu na kukuacha uhangaike na mhogo wangu unavyotaka, laa...atakuona mdhaifu, uliyechoka au unayemsusia tu. 

Kwa kutumia ile ile dhana ya wewe kuongoza jahazi, hakikisha unatengeneza mazingira ya yeye kuutawala mchezo na kuongoza mashambulizi kuelekea anakoona kuwa mshambuliaji atafunga goli la msimu. 

Wanawake wana-enjoy sana wanapoona kuwa wanaume wao wamewapa mamlaka ya kutawala dimba, kwani hiyo huwajengea fikra za kuwa wanaaminika kiuwezo, kiuchezeshaji na hata kiumaliziaji.

Wapo mfano wanawake ambao hupenda sana kunyonya muhogo ya wapenzi wao hadi kukojoa, lakini anapotaka kujaribu tu, unakuta janaume hilo, linamwambia aaah, mie sipendi hiyo....au anamuacha ila akikaribia anaanza kumwambia acha nitakojoa .... si umuache?

Kwani unadhani yeye hajui kuwa akikunyonya utakojoa? Mpe nafasi, anyonye anavyotaka, hata kama ni kukojoa, mkojolee mdomoni tu, maana yu ajua kuwa ndio mwisho wake, lakini kwakuwa anataka umfanye, lazima atajua pia namna ya kukurejesha askari wako awe mkakamavu.

Hata kama akitaka "akufanye" mruhusu tu...!!! 

#10 – Ondoa mazoea

Wanaume ni watu wa ajabu sana. 

Wakati wanaweza kujisifia hadharani kuwa naweza kumfanya hivi mwanamke, nikamgeuza vile, nikamnyanyua hivi na vile, tafiti za kisayansi zinabainisha kuwa, asilimia kubwa ya wanaume, huwa hawapendi sana kuwataka wapenzi wao kubadili staili wakati wa kujamiiana. 

Ndio, inawezekana mnatumia staili mbalimbali, lakini sio kwasababu mnaambiana, bali kwakuwa unaweza kuta leo imetokea mwanamke alijiteka kifo cha mende, basi utaendelea...kesho akijitega mbuzi kagoma kwenda, itaendelea hivyo hivyo.

Uchunguzi ambao umethibitishwa na wataalamu ni kuwa, wanawake huwapenda sana wanaume ambao wana uwezo na courage ya kuwataka wabadili mikao wanapokuwa wakiendelea na game.

Ni kama mchezaji wa football vile, anavyowasisimua watazamaji pale anapoanza ku-invent mbinu za kubadili mchezo wakati mchezo ukiwa unaendelea. 

Hata kubadili mazingira tu yaweza kuleta msisimko wa kushangaza

AHSANTE NI 

NYONGEZA AMBAYO NI KITU CHA MUHIMU SANA,

Kama ulidhani kuwa shukrani kwa mwenzako ni asante tu, basi ulikosea.

Hivi, unadhani wale makahaba wanaouza miili yao kule huwa hawaambiwi asante kwa huduma zao? Wanaambiwa sana tu, lakini mbona hawawakubali wale wote wenye kuwashukuru? 

Shukrani kwa mwenza wako inatakiwa iwe ya kivitendo zaidi.

Ufanye mwili wako uonyeshe kuwa unashukuru kwa vile anavyokupa mwenzako, kabla hata ya kutamka kwa mdomo wako kumshukuru.

Kushukuru kwa mwili ni pamoja na kuwa "gentle" wakati wa kujamiiana kwenyewe, na sio unakuta mtu unakazana kumsugua mwanamke wako utadhani unadhamiria kuhakikisha kuwa unafidia bia na vinywaji ulizomnywesha, au mahari kubwa waliyokulipisha wazazi wake wakati wanakukabidhi (kama ni mkeo wa ndoa)

Mwanaume Usiwe Mjinga Hizi ndizo Style za kumfikisha mwanamke kileleni.

Inasemekana kuwa asilimia kubwa ya wanawake huwa hawafikii kabisa kilele kwa upungufu wa nyege au matatizo mengine ya kimaumbile tukiachilia mbali swala la 

kukeketwa.

Baadhi ya wanawake hufikia kilele mara moja tu (tena kwa shugulikiwa kisimi sio ule uhondo wa kumani) kila wanapofanya mapenzi/ngono na wachache wamejaaliwa na hupata uhondo wote wa kufanya mapenzi yaani wanaweza kufika kileleni zaidi ya mara mbili katika tendo/mzunguuko mmoja.

Ujuzi au utundu wa mwanaume hausaidii ikiwa mwanamke mwenyewe hajiamini na vilevile hajui ni kitu gani kina “kunyegesha”.

Mwanamke anasehemu mbili maalum zinazopelekea kufikia kilele ikiwa zitafanyiwa kazi vyema sehemu hizo ni Kisimi na “kipele G”

Wanawake wengi tunakasumba ya kukimbilia “mikao” migumu tukiwafikiria wanaume wetu, sasa mimi nasema hivi; ikiwa unamatatizo ya kufika kileleni hakikisha mnaanza na “mkao” ambao unajua wazi unakufikisha ktk dakika chache badala ya kukimbilia “doggy” ukijua wazi mumeo/mpenzi wako ana mboo fupi au hajui/hujui “kipele G” kiko wapi?

Kifo cha mende #1. Huu ni “mkao” wa kizamani au kilokole (kufanya mingine ni dhambi hahhahaha) ila mimi binafsi na ufagilia sana.

“Mkao” huu umeboreshwa na unaweza kuufanya katika “pembe” tofauti inategemeana na wepesi wako, Ila hizi pembe mbili nakupa hapa ni maalum kumuwezesha mwanamke afikie kilele.

Kama kawaida lala chali huku miguu imepanuliwa, wakati Jamaa yuko juu yako, kunja sehemu ya magoti kueleke kifuani, kisha egesha miguu yako kwenye mabega yake.

Hii itazidisha kina cha uke na kufanya uume uende chini zaidi na “kukandamiza” mwisho wa uke na ukitoka huko unasugua sugu “kipele G” kabla haujatoka kabisha na kulamba kisimi na midomo ya K na hivyo utapata raha katika sehemu zote za uke wako.

Kifo cha mende #2. Mwanamke juu….ukiwa tayari kalia “mzingo” kisha mpe ile ya 1-10 na fanya hii kwa ajili yako ondoa maswali yako kuwa “sijui anasikia raha, sijui sio hivi sijui nini” mh-mh wewe jifikirie mwenyewe kwanza, unajua hawa viumbe sio lazima wafike ndio wawe wamefurahia tendo bali kitendo cha wewe kuonyesha unafurahia au jinsi unavyoteseka kufika yeye anapata raha…..

Mara baada ya kufika sasa ndio anza kumfikiria yeye na hapo ndio anza kumpa mauno, mpe mbele-nyuma, huku na kule, juu-chini huku wakaza mboo yake namisuli ya uke…..vyovyote uwezavyo na kama umeumbwa ka’ mimi basi unaweza pata bao la pili na mzunguuko haujaisha pao!

Real entry (a.k.a Doggie). Hii ni tofauti kiduchu na ile ambayo wengi huwa mnaifikiria/fanya ambayo mwanamke huwa hafiki kiurahisi na hapo “fake kilele” hujitokeza kwa vile ama inauma au kachoka.

Ninachojaribu kusema hapa ni kuwa “chuma mboga/mbuzi kagoma” wanawake wengi huwa haiwafikishi kileleni na huwa tunafanya hivyo kwa ajili ya wanaume na wanaume huwafikisha haraka kutokana na kile kitendo cha kuona inaingia na kutoka na uzuri wa matako yako yanavyo “lindimika” ka’ jelly hahahahaha.

Wewe mwanamke ili ufike kileleni basi inakuwa hivi mwanaume analala chali huku kichwa kikiwa juu ya mto (ili aweze kuangalia kazi yako).

Wewe unatakiwa umpe mgongo alafu ingiza uume kisha “support” uzito wako kwa kushikilia godoro, Wakati wewe unaenda juu- chini, yeye akusaidie kwa kukushika kiuno au matako, hakikisha uume wote unaingia hadi mwishoni kwenye makende/pumbu pale alafu usiwahi kurudi juu hakikisha unajisugua kiaina ili kuona wapi panakunika alafu jiweke kwenye pembe hiyo.

Kumbuka wewe ndio “dereva” hapo kwa hiyo endesha vema kwani ukikosea kidogo tu atakuacha (kutokana na anachokiona).

Ukiona haiji haraka basi nyoosha miguu yako bila uume kutoka ukeni na hapo utakuwa umelalia tumbo kwenye mapaja yake na miguu yako inatazama uso wake, panua miguu yako vema kisha mpe “pumps” (rafiki yangu mmoja husema mpige tako hahahahaha)…..hapo lazima utafika tu…..

Vilevile unaweza simamia magoti na mikono (kama mnyama) panua miguu kidogo na Jamaa atapiga magoti nyuma yako na kuingiza uume kwenye uke, unapaswa kujituma kama ni ndani-nje, huku na kuko, mbele- nyuma, kuzunguusha kiuno chaguo ni lako, lakini ukifanya vyote ndio raha zaidi.

Chap-chap#1.

Hii inaweza ikafanywa bila kuondoa nguo zote unashusha kidogo hadi magotini “kitu na Box”, nah ii lazima wote muwe naminyege lundo. Alafu ikiwa wewe ni mfupi itakuwa ni kituko kwani itabidi upande juu ya “kistuli” au upange matofali kama sio kubebwa (inategemea mko ktk mazingira gani) ili uume uingie vyema na kwenda “kukandamiza” uke wako kwa ndani na wakati wa kutoka basi upitie vema kisimi.

Chap-chap#2. Anataka wewe akili iko kwenye kuosha vyombo n.k. Mpenzi wako kwanini umnyime ei? Simama alafu uiname kidogo, pitisha mate kidogo juu ya uke wako alafu ingiza na kidole ili mate hayo yalainishe njia…kisha panua mguu mmoja ili kuuwezesha uume uingie vizuri, ukishaingia rudisha mguu kidogo ili uume “usichomoke”, wakati jamaa anakwenda juu-chini mikono yake ichezee kisimi ili kuongeza raha ya mnachokifanya .

Ubavu #1(a.k.a 11).

Lalia ubavu na ugeukie upande wa pili, jamaa akiwa nyuma yako ataingiza uume ndani ya uke kwa kupitia nyuma, “mkao” huu hufanyika katika mitindo tofauti kama ilivyo kifo cha mende ila huu ni wa kivivu zaidi lakini itakufikisha kunako uhondo.

Ubavu#2(a.k.a 14).Yeye analala kama #1, wewe jishushe kiasi kisha jikunje kama nne alafu rudisha matako yako kwa nyuma uswa wa uume wake kisha inua mguu wako ili aingize uume ukeni mwako, rudisha mguu chini kisha anza kujiangaisha kwa kukata kiuno au vyovyote uwezavyo wakati yeye anakupa nje-ndani….

Kitendo cha mapaja yako kubanana kitakupa raha kwenye kisimi na hata utamu na uume nao utakuwa umeubana na hivyo kusugua kona zako huko ndani.

Vyura.

Lala kifudifudi huku umepanua miguu alafu Jamaa alale juu yako na kuingiza uume kwenye uke kupitia nyuma, kwa kufanya hivyo uume wake utalenga vema “kipele G” kama unacho.

Wakati akienda nje-ndani mwili wako utakuwa unacheza cheza na kusugua kisimi ambacho kwa wakati huo kitakuwa kimegusa godoro na hivyo utapata utamu mara mbili kwa wakati mmoja wa “kipele G” na kisimi.

Toroli. Lala kifudifudi mwishoni mwa kitanda ning’iniza miguu huku umeipanua , Jamaa asimame katikati ya miguu yako, arudi chini kidogo ili aweze kuulenga uke. Jamaa atakwenda nje-ndani na wakati huohuo mwili wako utakuwa unacheza na kusugua kisimi na unaweza kubahatisha bao mbili kwa mzunguuko mmoja kama umejaaliwa.

KIDOKEZO KWA WANAUME.

Baadhi ya wanaume huwa na bidii na kufanikiwa kufika “Eneo la hatari” ambako ni ndani yaani karibu na njia ya uzazi.

Unapofika huko mwanamke atakuwa akilia kwa maumivu na wakati huohuo kutaka zaidi, pia utahisi misuli ya uke inakubana na kujaribu “kusukuma” mboo hiyo haina maana kuwa mwanamke amefika bali anakaribia hivyo ni wajibu wako kuzidisha “speed” badala ya kupunguza.

Jinsi unavyofanya hivyo ndivyo unavyozidi kumpa raha mwenzio na hatimae kufika…..baada ya kutoka uume unaweza ukawa na vijidamu kiasi au damu hasa kama vile yuko hedhini hapo inamaana umejeruhi kwa vile kule ni laini sana na hupona yenyewe tu.

Tahadhari: Ruhusu mtu afike mbali kiasi hicho ikiwa mko kwenye mahusiano ya kuaminiana, huna mimba (inaweza kuleta matatizo), huna mpango wa kupata mimba (akiteleza kidogo tu pale imenasa).BOFYA HAPA KUIONA HIYO STYLE (kumbuka ku-click skip add ili kuiona hiyo video ni bure)

Mazoezi ni muhimu ili kufanikiwa kujaribu baadhi ya mikao ya kiujumla ambayo ni BAB-KUBWA.

Mikao mingine nitaendelea kukurushia hapa inategemea zaidi na matakwa yako.

Kila la kheri katika kutukuza utukufu tuliojaaliwa.....samahani kiswahili changu kibovu.

Je, UKUBWA WA UUME au UDOGO WA UUME unasaidia katika kumridhisha mwanamke kimapenzi?

Je ni urefu au unene?

Je, urefu wa uume ni suala muhimu kwa mwanamke kuridhika kimapenzi?Hii ni imani potofu ambayo imewafanya wanaume wengi kujiingiza kufanya surgery za gharama kubwa na wengine kupoteza pesa zao kwa ajili ya kutafuta dawa za kienyeji ili kuongeza maumbile kuwa marefu zaidi.

Huko ni kupoteza muda na pesa.

Ingawa urefu wa uume hauna umuhimu kama imani potofu inavyodai bado suala la msingi ni uimara wa misuli ya uume; kwani misuli ya uume ikiwa imara basi mwanaume huwa na uwezo (strength/flexibility) ambayo itaweza kumpa sifa mume kwa mke wake kuliko kushabikia kuwa na jumbo size.

Hii ina maana bila kujali una urefu kiasi gani au ufupi kiasi gani, kama una misuli imara hilo ndilo jambo la msingi kwa mwanaume.

Tuweke suala la hiyo imani potofu pembeni hivi ni kitu gani mwanamke huhitaji physically ili afurahie tendo la ndoa?Suala la muhimu ni kuwa na ufahamu wa anatomy kuhusu mwanamke (uke); ukweli ni kwamba nervesnyingi zipo within inches mbili kutoka mlango wa uke (vaginal opening) na asilimia kubwa ya nerves zipo katika mzunguko wa mlango wa uke.

Hii ina maana mwanaume yeyote mwenye uume wa inches mbili kama anajua namna ya kumfikisha mke kuridhika au kufika kileleni kupitia uke (vaginal climax) basi ataweza kumfikisha mke wake kileleni.

Je, ni unene (thickness) wa uume huweza kumridhisha mwanamke kimapenzi?Ni kweli unene inaweza kuwa ni factor hasa kutokana na uwezo wa mwanamke alionao kukaza misuli ya uke.

Je mwanamke ana umri gani, amekuwa na partners kiasi gani na amezaa watoto wangapi na zaidi amefanya kitu gani kuhakikisha misuli yake (uke) inakuwa imara.

Mfano:Ingawa suala la thickness si tatizo kwa wanawake wa nchi za Asia kama Japan, Singapore au Philippines kwa kuwa suala la kukaza misuli kwa wanawake ni moja ya sanaa.

Wanawake wa huko hucheza michezo ya kuingiza ping pong-ball (mipira mfano wa tennis) sita kwenye uke na kuzirusha futi 15 ili kuingia kwenye ndoo huku kila kimpira kinapotoka kinaendana na popping sound bila kukosa hata kimoja.

Pia huweza kuingia ndizi iliyomenywa kwenye uke huanza kuzikata ndizo (slice) vipande vipande huku vikidondoka.

Fikiria sasa likija suala la mapenzi hii inaonesha kwamba hao wanawake wanajua jinsi ya kuridhishana na kwao size does not matter.

Bahati mbaya ni kwamba tamaduni nyingi za Africa, ulaya na Amerika hazina mazoea ya kuwa na mazoezi ya kukaza misuli ya uke au uume.

Hivyo thickness ni muhimu kwa mwanamke ambaye uke wake ni loose na weak pia kama misuli yake hoi.

NB: 

Hapa sina maana mwanamke ajihusishe na mchezo huu, it is illegal; najaribu kuelezea uwezo wa misuli ya uke ukifanyiwa mazoezi vitu inaweza kufanya.

Je, inakuwaje kama mwanaume ana uume mkubwa (unene na urefu) zaidi ya wastani ambao wanaume wengi huwa?Tafiti nyingi zinaonesha wanawake wengi hulalamika pale mwanaume anapokuwa na uume mkubwa zaidi ya kawaida na hasa kama hajui namna ya kuutumia.

Wanawake wengi huona ni huge barrier kwa ajili ya ku-enjoy sex kama mke na mume na wakati mwingine mwanamke hujisikia uncomfortable na huishia kukwepa.

Pia wanaume wenyewe ambao wana uume mkubwa tafiti zinaonesha kwamba wengi hujikuta katika huzuni na wanaombolezo kwa sababu partners wao kujisikia maumivu na kuumia na hata imesababisha mahusiano ya kimapenzi kati ya mke na mume kuzolota.

Je, hutokea nini pale mwanaume mwenye jumbo size akakutana na mwanamke mwenye uke uliobana?

Na wanaume ambao ukubwa wa uume (thickness ni zaidi ya kawaida wanapokutana na mwanamke ambaye ana size ndogo ya uke, au hakuwa wet sawasawa au hajazaa mtoto kabisa au bikira suala la sex linakuwa shughuli nzito kuihimili kwani lazima mwanamke akubaliane na pressure na pain za kuta za uke zinapochanwa.

Na pia kama mwanaume ana urefu unaozidi inches 6 ambayo ni average size kwa wanaume basi mwanamke anaweza kujikuta anajuta kwani anaweza kuhisi mwanaume anagonga hadi kwenye kizazi (internal reproductive organs).

Na matokeo yake mwanamke hujikuta anakaribisha magonjwa kama cysts ambayo huhitaji surgery na pia huweza kupata infections ambazo huweza kusababisha kukosa watoto.

Nini kifanyike?Jambo la msingi ni kwa mwanaume kufahamu namna ya kutumia tool yake vizuri, hii ni pamoja na kuwa caring, kufanya maandalizi ya kutosha.

Je, nini faida ya kuwa na uume mkubwa au uume mdogo?Kama mwanamke ana uke ambao ni loose na hawezi kuthibiti mwendo (misuli imelegea) basi tool kubwa kama hiyo huweza kumsaidia kupata feelings za kufurahia mapenzi hapa haijalishi mwanaume ana skills zozote au la.

Na mwanaume ambaye ana uume mdogo kuliko kawaida anaweza kuwa na faida kwa mwanamke ambaye ana uke mdogo (tight).

Hii ina maana mwanaume mwenye uume mkubwa ana match na mwanamke mwenye uke loose na hii combination huwezesha hao wawili kuwa na ridhiko kimapenzi.

Na mwanaume mwenye umbile dogo ana match na mwanamke mwenye uke tight.

Picha za Mchina aliyedatishwa na Penzi la Mkenya Club.

Hahaha ulishawahi kuona jinsi mchina alivyodata na penzi la Mkenya Tizama hapa hzi picha 

 

 

Na mauno yaendelee jamani lol utamu upewe ule wa kujipa uuuzzi

Hizi ndizo aina 11 za Mwanamke Kukojoa ziko Hapa.

Men tend to have only one orgasm and then they relax but for women they vary from one to the other . 

These orgasms range from those that are barely noticeable to her man, to screaming ,curling even bed soaking squirting orgasms 

Lets view at the orgasms women are capable of having.

1. The Cl*tor*l Orgasm:

This orgasm is the most common and is the result of cl*tor*l stimulation. Intensely pleasurable feelings start within the clitoris and send waves of pleasure throughout the body.The cl*tor*s is the most sensitive area on the female body, being one of the most nerve rich. If you are a guy, imagine ALL the nerve endings in the p*nis poured into one small area about the size of a pea.The cl*toris is so important to receiving pleasure that s3xual arousal is always felt there on some level. That is why the cl*toris is so responsive to certain kinds of touch.

However, it’s not the same for every woman; it’s sensitivity varies greatly from woman to woman. Some women may prefer a light touch while others may require much stronger and firmer stimulation. For some women, it’s so sensitive that touching the cl*toral glans directly is often uncomfortable and unbearable. After an orgasm, the cl*t may become extremely sensitive to the point of being painful. As a good lover, you should know that, and give your woman a few minutes of rest.

This kind of female orgasm can be given:

Orally. My advice to those women who complain that their partners have no idea of how to give it, show them, communication is key for a woman to achieve orgasm. Tell your partner what feels good and what doesn’t feel good. Help your partner be attentive to your s3xual needs.

Fingers: I highly suggest that women masturbate, simply to figure out what you like and what you don’t like. Again, communicate to your partner let them know if they are doing it wrong or if its hurting you. Always keep the cl*toris lubricated, it enhances pleasure and helps achieve the orgasm faster. 

How does this orgasm feel to a woman ?

A cl*toral orgasm can be very intense, but many women describe it as “less deep” than others. Nevertheless, it is extremely pleasurable, and good clitoral stimulation adds a lot to your s3x life and helps her “warm up” and prepare for penetration. 

2. The V*gin*l Orgasm:

This kind of female orgasm begins in the vagina and either stays focused in the pelvic and lower stomach areas, or spreads from there. The uterus, pelvic muscles, and even anus may begin to contract during this orgasm. Those contractions are quite strong and may actually push out anything that was stimulating the v*g*na. This kind of orgasm takes longer to achieve (it takes a woman on average 20-25 mins to achieve this kind of orgasm) Rhythmic thrusting is often the best way to get her there, a good lover will communicate with his woman and find out the best position for her to reach it.

How does this kind of orgasm feel to a woman ?

Many women describe it as “less intense” than a clitoral orgasm, but more deeply felt. They feel it as a pressure that slowly grows and explodes deep inside the v*g*na. This varies greatly from woman to woman.

3. The G-Spot Orgasm

This orgasm begins in the G-Spot(which is located 2-3 inches in the v*g*na) and may stay there while climaxing or it may powerfully explode through the whole body (I like to call this the leg shaker). This spot feels different in texture than the rest of the vagina. It is spongy and coarser in texture than the rest of the v*g*na, which is normally how it is found. During s3xual arousal, the tissue surrounding the urethra becomes engorged with blood and the Para-urethral / Skenes glands produce and fill with pro static fluid. In fact, this process is very similar to male arousal. As a result, the urethral sponge becomes “erect,” and if you touch it, it feels firm. In other words, this is a kind of female hard-on.

How to reach it:

There are different ways of stimulating the G-Spot. Rhythmic pushing or circular friction movements are the best for achieving this kind of orgasm. One position that is good for reaching this s3xual peak is from the back or fingering.

This orgasm may also lead to female ejaculation (see the next section on squirting).

How does this kind of female orgasm feel to a woman ?

This kind of female orgasm takes some time to build( again 20-25 minutes) Many women describe it as a very special, deeply sensual pleasure, which builds until their whole lower stomach and pelvic area explodes. Often, they are carried away for quite some time by the powerful wave of euphoric energy and don’t even realize where they are and what is going on around them (I like to call this one the leg shaker).

4. Squirting Orgasm (Female Ejaculation)

This kind of female orgasm is so profound that it deserves a book of its own. It’s mysterious and not a lot of women achieve this in their lifetime. Female ejaculation is generally achieved by stimulating the G-spot, which is considered an erotic zone located internally, at the front of the vagina. This area is intimately connected with the urethra. Indeed, pressure on the G-spot area will invariably produce a desire to pee. A woman has to be EXTREMELY comfortable with her partner or with herself in order for this to be achieved. This kind of female orgasm builds a very deep bond between a woman and her partner. This is the most intimate and delightful thing your woman can share with you.

In short, this powerful orgasm is achieved by using ancient Tantric techniques. It releases negative emotions and fills a woman with light, euphoric energy and a feeling of fulfillment and peace. Squirting makes other kinds of female orgasms look pale in comparison.

Note for single women: if you don’t have a partner or just want to experience this kind of orgasm on your own, here is the good news … it is perfectly possible !

5. The A–Spot Orgasm (The Anterior Fornix Orgasm)

This kind of female orgasm is achieved by stimulation of an area deep in the v*g*na (about 4-5inches) on the front wall. It is the same wall where the G-Spot is situated. In other words, this is a patch of sensitive tissue at the inner front end of the vaginal tube, between the cervix and the bladder.After an orgasm, the A-Spot does not become too sensitive, and you can easily continue stimulation, bringing your partner to new heights of pleasure, this is why women are able to achieve multiple orgasms. 

Many women find the feeling incredibly pleasurable, while some may not like it at all. Keep this in mind when experimenting.

How is this orgasm given:

Basic missionary position, where a man is short-thrusting very deeply during intercourse.

With a hand. Use the same technique you use for stimulating the G-Spot, but in this case, go as deep as your fingers can reach. Simply said, you just try to “scoop it out” with your middle finger.

Many women describe this orgasm as a kind of soft electricity bringing them to a sharp, erotic climax. A few women find this orgasm very similar to the G-spot, while some find it closer to an extremely strong v*g*nal orgasm.

6. The Deep Spot Orgasm (The Posterior Fornix Orgasm)

This kind of female orgasm is achieved by stimulating the area located almost all the way back in the deepest part of the back wall of the v*g*na, just before the cervix.Direct stimulation of the Deep Spot can cause very intense orgasms. Some women may feel as if they are having anal s3x. This particular area is not widely known, so very few women have ever experienced those sensations.

This kind of female orgasm can be given with a hand, using “Come Hither” motions. Use both long and short strokes, and you can even use two fingers if you like.

Note: first find out what kind of feeling your partner has when you touch her cervix. Some women enjoy it a lot, and some do not like it at all.

7. The U-Spot Orgasm

This kind of female orgasm comes from the stimulation of a small area of sensitive erectile tissue located just above and on either side of the urethral opening. It is in the small area between the urethra and the vagina. If this region is gently caressed with the finger, the tongue, or the tip of the p*nis, there is a powerful erotic response.you stimulate this area the same way you treat the clitoris.

Almost every woman can achieve the orgasms above but there are more. These are less common and a woman’s s3xuality is key to achieve these.

8. The Breast Orgasm

This kind of female orgasm occurs during a peak of stimulation to the breasts. The nipples connect to nerves in the female genitals and many women feel a direct connection with their clitoris when their nipples are stimulated. Many women feel increased sexual excitement when their nipples are stimulated but not all of them can experience the breast orgasm. This depends very much on how sensitive their nipples are.

9. The Oral Orgasm

This orgasm can be experienced by women who are very sensitive orally. The mouth plays a big role in the s3xual nervous system. The mouth orgasm can take place during any sensual oral activity such as kissing, licking, sucking, or performing oral s3x. Many women describe the excitement as beginning in their lips and then spreading from the mouth to the genitals and all over the body.

YES you can achieve orgasm while giving head. Every mans dream 

10. The Skin Orgasm

This orgasm can be brought about by massaging certain areas of female body that are not directly connected to the s3xual nervous system. Examples include orgasms experienced by many women during sensual massages. 

11. The Mental Orgasm

This kind of female orgasm can happen during visual and auditory stimulation. Examples of such stimulation are movies, videos, or s3xual behavior exhibited in front of others. Women become so turned on that they can actually experience an orgasm from the excitement alone. 

Do this: Lay down and turn on a po*n or keep the room quiet. Close your eyes and focus on the sounds envision what you think is happening and pretend it is happening to you. Imagine the scenario that you want, let your mind completely take over. Flex your kegal muscles. This takes time and full concentration.

Courtesy Of Monica's Box

Mwanamke Hizi ndizo sababu zinazowafanya wanaume kucheat

I was seated with a bevy of beauties and as we enjoyed our moments a quiz popped as to why men cheat.Yes of course i had to give them an answer since I was the only male around.Here are the things we shared with you might want to read and escape the worst scenario of your lover playing you without your knowledge.

1)Adventurous Factor

Men want to explore .They want oral S3x .If you cant offer then he will go and find it somewhere else

2)You Let Him Do It

Take A firm step and warn him of his activities otherwise he wont stop my dear.

3)He Is A Player

What did you expect my dear.Once a cheat always a cheat

4)Love

If he is in love with the other woman of course he will cheat

5)He Knows You Will take him back

6) Culture Factor

He comes from a tribe that always cheat

7)He knows You Wont Get Him

8)Beautiful Girl Walked Past Him

Well what did you expect .That girl who passed by him is cute so he took his chances 

9) A Friend Did It 

If his friend did it the chances of cheating are high since he cannot be left behind.Ladies check out what kind of friends he keeps

10) Boredom

If you keep doing the same stuff with him he will get bored and move to look for fun else where so take keen interest on the activities you do with him.

11) You played Him 

If you played him he will hit back without blinking and make sure you feel the pain

Niusaidiaje mchepuko utulie na mkewe?

Mwaka na miezi kazaa tangu nimjue sasa, nakumbuka kuna tatizo lilitokea ikabidi nimuone yeye ofisini kwao, ndo ukawa mwanzo wa penzi letu kuchipua.

Aliniweka wazi kwamba ana mchumba, ila yuko nje ya mji haikuwa shida sababu nilikuwa na stress zangu za mapenzi niliona nimepata pakuzitolea labda nitamsahau yule aliyekuwa mpenzi wangu, kwa takribani miaka minne sasa nitamsahau na kupata pakuanzia.

Ingawa sikuwa single kwa wakati huo, kuna mtu ambaye nilikuwa naye kwa muda mrefu, alinizidi umri sana na ni mume wa mtu, nilihitaji mtu wakuwa naye huru na kwakuwa huyu mchumba wake alikuwa mbali na mie moyo wa kupenda ulikufa sikuona shida kusogeza muda naye.

Kadiri siku zilivyosonga niliona mwenzangu anazidi kukolea, ikabidi nikate mawasiliano, mana ilifika kipindi anajutia kuwa kwenye commitment.Ni mwezi sasa na siku kazaa tangu aoe, bado ananiganda anataka tuendelee na mahusiano, binafsi siko tayari kuendelea naye nishatumia njia zote kumkatisha tamaa bado kang'ang'ana.

Tafadhari wale wakurusha mawe pita mbali, hapa ni ushauri jinsi ya kunusuru ndoa ya watu idumu tu.

Njia ya Kukuza Uume urefu na Mapana Ukiwa Nyumbani Hii Hapa.

Do you want to enlarge your penis and make it bigger?

Do you want to end premature ejaculation?

Do you want to last longer in bed?

If you said YES to the above questions, then I would like you to read this page to the end because you have the solution right in front of you.

Having a big penis is a thing of pride, joy and confidence but also knowing how to use it to satisfy your woman keeps her coming back for more and more. 

Do you know that your wife will love you more if your penis was bigger and stronger than the way it is now? Often time times, you read in newspapers, cases of divorce and cheating in marriages, what you need to understand is that 85% of such cases as a result of small penis and inability to last longer in bed as most women want. I’m going to help you last longer in bed and regain your pride back especially when you pull off your clothes to start the action. I am going to help you overcome such problems in a few minutes so you can drive your woman wild in bed. Read On!

WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT YOUR PENIS

The word “penis” comes from the Latin word for “tail.” “Penis” was not adopted into the English language until the 17th century. Prior to that, a penis was referred to as a “yard.”

There are many factors that determine the size of your penis length. However, genetics is the main factor that determines the size of a man. The other factors which can affect in some ways include unhealthy lifestyle, diet, culture and exposure to chemicals etc.

For Men, Losing weight will only make your penis look dramatically bigger if you're at least 30 pounds overweight because as you lose weight…The pad of extra fat over your pubic bone hiding your penis (see the picture on your right) will get smaller or go away helping you reveal more of your penis so actually…So consider loosing weight.

Among men, there is no consistent relationship between the size of the flaccid penis and its full erect length. In one study of 80 men, researchers found that increases from flaccid to erect lengths ranged widely, from less than a quarter-inch to 3.5 inches longer. Whatever the clinical significance of these data may be, the locker-room significance is considerable. You can't assume that a dude with a big, limp penis gets much bigger with an erection. And the guy whose penis looks tiny might get a surprisingly big erection.

AVERAGE PENIS SIZE

There is no average length figure for teenagers because many youths have different genes and grow at different rates. For adult men, the average penis size is about 14-16cm when erect. The average girth for an erect penis is 11-13cm. A penis could be considered too small if it is less than 7.5cm long when erect. On the other hand, there is large variation in the angle of an erect penis. Whether it is straight up and curve left or right, each shape is unique in nature. What matters is how you use it to satisfy your female partner. If you are a female reading this letter you know how it feels when a strong curved penis enters into you. The dimension and the angle in which its curved makes you experience orgasm quickly.

HOW TO ENLARGE YOUR PENIS SIZE IN NIGERIA

Good news for you. Yes! There are too much hype, myths and rumours over penis enlargement than any other sex-rated topic you can think of. The reason why we setup this page is not to laugh or blame you because of your size but rather to show you the real solution. Please do not mind those aboki malams on the streets and filling stations hawking dangerous pills without approval. Those drugs for penile enragement can end or complicate your life if you are not careful. Be warned!

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If you are thinking of increasing the size and girth of your penis size to at least 3-4, this is what you need right now. I must tell you it requires patience and constant use to achieve that over a period of time. It can also help you end your premature ejaculation problems. With so much options available for this product I can tell you that we are the major distributors of this penis pump in Nigeria. I personally can give you a TESTIMONIES of the results I got within two months of using this penis pump.

And now, I am introducing it to you so you can end all your worries in 2015. Give yourself a pleasurable boost with this ultimate penis pump. It is designed to help you achieve the following:

1. Increase the length and girth of your penis with frequent use.

2. Help you end premature ejaculation

3. Help you last long like a rock star.

The penis enlarger pump can’t be any simple than the one we have and you can see on the screen. (Mind you there are many imitations and fake products from unauthorized sellers). With frequent use, you will experience a measurable increase in size and shape. For the best results use for between 20-30 minutes and 60 minutes per day with a break every 15 minutes. Also suitable for men measuring 7 inches or lessin length with a girth of up to 5inches.

The penis pump will give you a permanent solution that you will start seeing growth results from the first day of using it.

PENIS ENLARGEMENT OPTION 2

We are proud to introduce to you our best selling penis enlargement pill (Xtra Large Pill)which works like magic to enlarge your penis and brings so many benefits for your sex life with it excluding all potentially harmful side-effects.

Forget about the pills you have to take each time you want to enjoy a good sex.

Forget about those long minutes of painful anticipation you have to spend praying for the best. All you have to do is to order XTRA LARGE SIZE and start to take two pills a day. In one month this absolutely harmless and natural combination will become a part of your body’s system.As soon as you start using it, you will be pleasantly surprised to experience the following:

Stronger libido

Fascinating erections

Better control

Long-lasting desire

More extensive orgasms

This drug has 30 tablets in a pack and has no side effect like other drugs been peddled everywhere. It usually takes 2-3 months to get the desired penis size after which you can stop using it. It is NAFDAC approved and our doctor recommends it.

The instruction and dosage for taking this tablet is 2 per day with enough water or milk. Which means one pack will last for 15 days. And You will need two packs to complete 30 days dosage. We highly recommend you to complete a regular course of 3 months to get the maximum and permanent increase in size.

Nikipata goli moja tu nachoka, tatizo mpenzi wangu

Nina mpenzi wangu na nipo nae kwenye mahusiano ya kimapenzi,tatizo ni kwamba mpenzi wangu anatoka maji ukeni, hivyo najikuta natumia nguvu nyingi kupata goli moja hivyo hunifanya nikose hamu ya kurudi tena uwanjani.

Ndugu wana MMU naomba ushauri wenu ili hili tatizo la mpenzi wangu kutoka maji ukeni liishe ili nami nifurahie penzi la mpenzi wangu kama wanavyofurahia watu wengine kwa wapenzi wao.

Msaada tafadhali.

Mabinti Acheni Kuwakalia uchi waume za watu..Hawa Viumbe ni Wadhaifu Sana

                      

Jamani inasikitisha sana, pale binti anapoamua kutafuta mazingira tu na kuamua kumkalia uchi kwa makusudi kabisa mume wa mtu kwa lengo la kumpata, mkasa huu umetokea nyumba ninayoishi, kuna wapangaji vyumba vyao vipo karibu karibu, huyu mmoja ana msichana wa kazi, mwingine hana.

Huyu binti katafuta mazingira na kumkalia yule jamaa uchi kilichotokea ni yule jamaa kujikuta anaanza kumfuatilia msichana, na hali ukizingatia hakua hata na wazo na huyo dada na ni muda mrefu wanaishi hapo, kumbe dada na namba ya simu alishatafuta si ndo kuanza kuchati nae oh mpenzi sijui nini na nini.

Kindumbwe ndumbwe juzi wife wa jamaa kaona message, hapajakalika ugomvi na nyumba nzima wamejua. Jamaa akajitetea, ''Yaani mke wangu wala siko hivyo, na wala sina wazo na huyu mjinga, ila juzi tu nipo hapo uwani nafua nguo zangu si ndo akanikalia uchi, then badae ananitumia message tukachati, na wala sijui namba zangu kapata wapi''.

Aibu ndo hivyo tena!

Jamani mabinti acheni sio vizuri kumbuka hata na wewe utakuja olewa, kama unaona mwanaume haonyeshi muda na wewe muache na sio kumfanyia visa. Hawa viumbe 98% ni wadhaifu sana, Paja tu hoi, na nyie wanaume ukiona binti anakukalia uchi kama umetazama kwa bahati mbaya basi usigeuke tena potezea, hata binti atakuona una msimamo.



Asante kwa kuelewa.

Zari Avujisha Tena Video yake Akifanya Ngono iko Hapa.

Zari Hassan s3x tape is finally out. She is not only with a man but also with a humongous s3x toy. You can hear her scream my ”my pu$y is slippery. The guy is finger#ng Zari while she is playing with the toy. Its really enticing huh???

To get the full video, you have to like our facebook page first and follow us on Twitter then you can comment with your number to get the Video. It is more explosive than that of Desire Luzinda.

look at the scenes;

 

You can miss this!!!!!!

Mke wa Mtu Sumu Tizama Kilichomsibu Njemba Huyu baada ya Kule Mke wa Mtu.

NIKITOKA HAPA SITARUDIA TENA, NDIVYO ANAVYOONEKANA KUSEMA KIJANA HUYU MKAZI WA KITUNDA.